Frequently Asked Questions
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What are Somatics?
relating to the body, especially as distinct from the mind
Getting you out of your head and into your body.. Reconnecting your heart to your head through your body.
Gimme an example:
We will have a conversation about you and what your feeling (in your head) then we'll make your aware of how that feeling is sitting inside your body. We will then add external stimulus to you if needed to focus your attention on your body
What is the interview process like?
We will email back and forth a bit to understand what you are looking for and you can ask detailed questions about anything we discussed
If we BOTH agree to met then we will find a public coffee house to feel if we vibe together.
If after we meet, we BOTH agree to work together, I will generate a Course of Action (CoA) within 24hrs and you will decide if the CoA is acceptable.
If you agree then we will look at schedules and pick a start date. If you have questions we will resolve them together.
I'm new to this, how do I know if I'll like it?
Well lets chat about what you want and see if an introduction to the scene is needed.
If you don't know what you want, we can arrange a kink tasting to your level of ease.
Im a New Dom, can you help train me?
Yes. I am endlessly passionate about training others. I feel good knowing that I'm teaching people to be safe.
Can you train my submissive? They are misbehaving
Your relationship with your partner is special and intimate. sometimes that familiarity can bread contempt. I can meet with you and your sub together and discuss exactly what you want.
I'm hosting a kink party, will you come and work?
I have worked with people at public bars and private parties, dialing into exactly what they needed. Like a dial-a-Dom.
What if my intensity isn't as high as yours?
Everyone has their own intensity range. I've learned over the years, that we establish what YOUR range is. Mine will adjust to the person I'm working with.
If you want a light touch or a heavy cathartic inducing touch. That can be arranged.
Frequently Asked Questions
What primary services do you offer?
Trauma-informed somatic lifestyle coaching. We specialize in folks that have trauma around kinky sex.
We can also help you negotiate your needs with your partner in a safe and non-judgmental way. We help other Doms reconnect with their submissives
We offer BDSM tastings to those that want to experience it safely.
We advise scene lay-out and ways to elevate your experience using all five senses.
We get to the center of the issues at hand and help you detangle them. Whether it be with sex or a regular life skill (I've taken a client clothes shopping to teach them what looks good on them and establish their personal style.)
What do you specialize in?
Sexual freedom from shame and self acceptance. Loving yourself and self-advocation.
Training people on tools and safe practices
What is the interview process like?
We will email back and forth a bit to understand what you are looking for and you can ask detailed questions about anything.
If we BOTH agree to met then we will find a public coffee house to feel if we vibe together.
If after we meet, we BOTH agree to work together, I will generate a Course of Action (CoA) within 24hrs and you will decide if the CoA is acceptable.
If you agree then we will look at schedules and pick a start date. If you have questions we will resolve them together.
The work can be yours or your partner(s)
Do you handle out of state/country clients ?
Yes. Lets email about the details.
Do you offer sex?
No that is for you and your partner(s).
What if I don't have trauma to resolve?
We could still somatically work together to expose any shame or exploration you want to experience. The work we do is trauma-informed which means we will tread lightly until we know what things mean for you
What if I change more than my partner(s) can accommodate?
Congratulations! You have a good problem and uncovered people holding you back from being true to yourself. You can bring them along on your journey unless they are uncomfortable.
Do you have any books to recommend?
Yes!
The Body keeps the Score
Healing collective trauma
Man's search for meaning
The four Agreements
Different Loving
More than Two