Frequently Asked Questions
What primary services do you offer?
Trauma-informed somatic lifestyle coaching. We specialize in folks that have trauma around kinky sex.
We can help you negotiate your needs with your partner in a safe and non-judgmental way.
We offer BDSM tastings to those that want to experience it safely.
We offer scene lay-out and ways to elevate your experience using all five senses
We get to the center of the issues at hand and help you detangle them.
We help other Doms reconnect with their submissives
What do you specialize in?
Sexual freedom from shame and self acceptance. Loving yourself and self-advocation.
Training people on tools and safe practices
What is the interview process like?
We will email back and forth a bit to understand what you are looking for and you can ask detailed questions about anything.
If we BOTH agree to met then we will find a public coffee house to feel if we vibe together.
If after we meet, we BOTH agree to work together, I will generate a Course of Action (CoA) within 24hrs and you will decide if the CoA is acceptable.
If you agree then we will look at schedules and pick a start date. If you have questions we will resolve them together.
The work can be yours or your partner(s)
Do you handle out of state/country clients ?
Yes. Lets email about the details.
Do you offer sex?
No that is for you and your partner(s).
What if I don't have trauma to resolve?
We could still somatically work together to expose any shame or exploration you want to experience. The work we do is trauma-informed which means we will tread lightly until we know what things mean for you
What if I change more than my partner(s) can accommodate?
Congratulations! You have a good problem and uncovered people holding you back from being true to yourself. You can bring them along on your journey unless they are uncomfortable.
Do you have any books to recommend?
Yes!
The Body keeps the Score
Healing collective trauma
Man's search for meaning
The four Agreements
Different Loving
More than Two